Joyce Meyer has written a book on “Approval Addiction”. And then “Finding Sarah” on OWN channel, whicvh is all about Sarah Ferguerson finding herself and being helped by both Dr. Phil and Suze Orman , deals directly with this: that we really need to love ourselves enough so that we don’t need to seek approval from others. In fact, the bible teaches us that it is unwise “for us to compare ourselves to others” . And so, it is also important to say “No’ unless we sell our souls and find an anguish that is so hard to over come. If you have the chance, and the channel, “OWN”, check out “Finding Sarah” it is so worth it. Everyone struggles with the “Approval Addiction” as Joyce Meyer would say. Take care Tracee.